Hey Fabulous People!
I know I should say Happy New Month to
y'all since this is our first post for November. I promise I haven't abandoned
you. Not at all. Life has just been happening to me in ways I least expected
and I will definitely share with y'all what I have been up to as soon as I can.
So last Sunday, I wore my mother-in-law's
cloth to church and my Anambra man couldn’t help but confess how much it
reminded him of his mum. It's actually been 6 years since she passed and we
still do miss her.
Okay, let me tell you a little about
Madame Rose Udeh.
My mother-in-law was a kind, gentle, godfearing woman who loved her family so much that she did all she could to ensure that her kids get the best of life. Need I add that she was very fair in complexion and earned the name Gold from her youthful days. You can now guess where my son, Sammy, got his fair skin from.
After my mother-in-law passed on, I received this lovely outfit in the picture below from my sister-in-law. She didn't mind sharing her mum's clothes with me, and I was pleased to have something that reminded me of the woman who took me in and taught me a little more about being an Anambra wife. The cloth was originally a blouse with 2 wrappers, as worn by the Igbos but I am not a Mama, that ties 2 wrappers. Don't forget yours truly is a 16-year-old baby girl. Lolz.Well, I usually tie 2 wrappers on very special occasions which is quite rare. So I decided to use the other wrapper to make this lovely dress for my daughter, and so we twinned to church. Surprisingly, somebody stopped me and asked if she was my sister. I laughed my heart out because I just couldn't wrap my head around the fact that the little Presh, I carried some years ago had grown up so much to be mistaken for my sister. Anyway, that's what you get when you start having kids early.I have heard a couple of people say that they would never put on a cloth that belonged to someone who has passed on. Not too long ago, I wasn't sure if I could but based on the relationship I had with my mother-in-law, I didn't see anything wrong in wearing her clothes. She really did have an impressive fashion sense if you ask me. So let me know in the comment section, can you wear the clothes of a loved one who has passed on? And what do you think is the major cause of the rift between women and their daughters-in-law? I'll really love to hear your thoughts about these issues.
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